It is so sad to see women giving this type of self destructive "advice" to others. This poor woman is going to be broken, alone, and miserable within 10-15 years tops. It is sad to see her so deceived by the lies that have possessed her.
There is a very important message in the middle of this video about how these types of lies are being used to destroy society. Check the 2nd link below to see the most important part of this video:
https://youtu.be/Jw7oF6HEHrI?t=1222
(watch the 2nd link until the 22:51 mark for the best point of the entire video)